Is finding a soulmate or a right life partner is proving difficult for you? by Rohit Anand New Delhi India

Finding a soulmate or a right life partner in life easily.

There are many of you who are searching for our soulmate, or have just found them but are not together for some reason, or often find yourself getting impatient and frustrated with the process of delay and waiting for the right person in your life. Let’s face the facts first, relationships are a continuous evolving process and the more spiritual the connection, the greater and longer that process seems to be. What we tend to forget is that our union with right mate is assured if we have the patience to let things unfold in their proper time. Instead we often trying to force the issue due to various reasons or else we give up.

“Be grateful for whoever comes in your life, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.”

Whenever the relationship is based upon vibrations of lower 3 chakras or lower consciousness it will not last long.So one needs to uplift one vibes to higher chakras to attract the truly loving partner in our lives.

Karmic Obstructions in Finding a right person or soulmate in life

Before soulmates can come together, they both have to clear anything and everything within themselves that is not love or keeping love away. They also have to finish up any karma that they may have with someone else before they can find you. That is not just for one of the pair of soul mates but for both. We often make the mistake of thinking that we have cleared up our own issues and we are waiting on the other to get with the plan, but that is not the case.

“Reason is the powerless in the expression of Love.”

We are not meant to be just sitting around twiddling our thumbs waiting for our soul mate to get their act together, we are meant to do our own inner work so that when they are ready, we are ready also to welcome that person into our life. We need to be the best possible person we can be so that when the union takes place, there will be little drama to play out as we have worked through our individual issues.

It is so easy to blame the other, our soul mate, for the split when things fall apart but truly there is no blame if we can see through the eyes of our heart instead of our ego or fear. When we are in a position of blame, then we have a tendency to say things we don’t mean that can have a devastating effect on our relationship, and can prolong the time till union occurs.

We need to be ever so careful and vigilant with what we say and instead of letting our ego or fear factor have the upper hand in our communication with our mate, we need to come from that place of love that we feel for them. That same love that can’t be experienced with anyone else in life.

If we want to say what is on our mind with regard to our feelings, we need to find a way to do so that is not destructive in nature. We can say things in a way that is nurturing and kind, and not mean spirited. It is better to not say anything in the heat of the moments, or when we are angry, frustrated or hurt at times. We should wait till we have worked through our own emotional states, and are calm and centered again, before we say anything.

This is often why we find that soulmates come together for a brief period and then split apart again, while one or both works through something that needs to be addressed and healed before they can come together again. It's really is a dance of shiva and shakti. It’s easy to get disheartened and want to give up but if we are patient then the reward, the union, will be well worth the effort and the wait.

“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”

 © Rohit Anand. Consult our Vedic Astrologer, Tarot card reader shri Rohit Anand Ji for Love Zodiac Compatibility, Marriage Match Making, Finding a right life partner and if the present one is good for you or not.